All we need is positivity

I remember reading somewhere that life is more black and white than we’d like to believe. We have this intrinsic quality of complicating things; we’d like to think that taking a conscious decision to stay peaceful and content has been made impossible. But in fact, like my father used to say, “Mood is in your mind!” it’s up to you to cut out the drama from your life. But we don’t learn to uncomplicated; it’s simply not in our DNA!

More often than not, we crave validation. We want people, anyone from random strangers to acquaintances, to think well of us. We want their approval and at time even envy. But actually, sometimes life is as simple as breathe in, and breathe out. You breathe in goodness, and breathe out negativity. It’s that simple! You surround yourself with people who love, honour and care for you; you ctl+alt+delete people who demean you, judge you or simply make you tense in their presence. Today as I was dealing with a similar situation someone pointed out to me that all I had to do was delete the situation. I had forgotten that it was that simple! I realized that if I keep wasting my energy on people and situations that don’t add any positivity to my being I had the choice to either remove them from my life or remove me from the situation, or both. So, this is to remind anyone who is stuck in such a situation or stuck with sticky people to get the hell out of there, because, trust me, sometimes there is no shame in quitting!  Remember: CLT+ALT+DELETE or Exit!